Steph’s Twin Miracle with Donor Eggs: A Journey of Hope and Resilience
In episode 60 for my podcast, I was thrilled to interview our wonderful guest, Steph. Steph connected with me in April 2023 and began a three-month coaching package to help her move forward on her donor egg journey. She then joined the Donor Egg Mama membership program. Fast forward to just over a year later, and Steph is now 36 weeks pregnant with twin babies.
Steph's journey to motherhood began later in life. At 44, she and her husband had always talked about wanting children but had not officially tried until a faint positive pregnancy test in August 2020 prompted them to start actively trying. After two years of unsuccessful attempts, Steph faced the challenge of seeking medical support.
Initially hesitant due to past experiences with weight stigma, Steph found encouragement from an inclusive and supportive OBGYN. This led her to a fertility specialist who mentioned the option of donor eggs from the beginning. Although initially off-putting, this early mention gave Steph the time to research and consider the donor egg pathway.
Steph's first IVF attempt with her own eggs in December 2022 was unsuccessful, plunging her into a dark place. It took months of therapy and eventually finding the right support from the Donor Egg Mama community to help her navigate the emotional complexities. Steph realised the importance of having someone who truly understands the donor egg journey.
Despite the initial disappointment, Steph's resilience shone through. She faced another failed embryo transfer in June 2023 but bounced back with renewed hope. Her resilience was bolstered by the constant reminder that she was on a path to becoming a mother, no matter the setbacks.
Steph found strength in journaling before doctor’s appointments and using affirmations to stay grounded and positive. Her Favorite strategies included visualising holding her babies and reminding herself that she deserved to visualise this future and embrace the journey fully.
Steph’s story is a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of finding the right support, and the courage to embrace a new pathway to motherhood. Her journey reminds us that life's most meaningful experiences often come from unexpected challenges. By sharing her story, Steph offers hope and encouragement to others navigating similar paths, proving that with determination and the right support, it's possible to turn obstacles into opportunities for growth and joy.
For more information, visit www.donoreggmama.com and explore our membership program offering comprehensive resources, including guided hypnotherapy, meditations, and monthly live-sharing circles. Let's walk this journey together, supporting each other every step of the way. Listen to the full episode here!
